Arab Wedding in Dubai

Very niceeeeeeeeeeee , I love going to wedding party and love how marriage in UAE are !

Next one : The cousin of my husband . Congratulations , wish you hapiness , Nadiya and Shouheb. See you on 9th April 2010.

Men Party

The dinner table

The entrance of the Hyatt Hotel for the wedding room ...

Delicious cake ...

Arab Wedding and decor

Gulf countries :

In these pictures, i am showing you a decor that i really like it when I was in an emirati marriage.

Oprah apologizes for misrepresenting Dubai

American chat show queen, Oprah Winfrey, was forced to apologize on Monday to an outraged audience for an episode of her show featuring women from around the world in which a guest from Dubai gave false information about life in the dazzling UAE city. The episode, which aired in October, hosted women from cities like Copenhagen, Rio de Janeiro, Istanbul, Tokyo and Dubai, where Dr. Lamees Hamdan spoke to the show via Skype and explained about her life and what living in Dubai was like.

The segment began with a voice-over by Oprah who said: “Thanks to this country’s rich oil supplies, the government provides its citizens with free water, electricity and health care. The best part? No income tax!”

Hamdan went on to explain to the audience that people in Dubai do not pay utility bills, which is incorrect, and said there were no "poor people" in Dubai, overlooking the city's tens of thousands of unskilled workers from South East Asia.

The show's website, www.oprah.com, was flooded with comments and emails from angry viewers, who said Hamdan and Oprah misrepresented life in Dubai with false comments.

Lamees Hamdan invites the Oprah show into her home "We do pay electricity and water...its freaking called DEWA!!!! Who is this infamous doctor and why the hell is she speaking non sense???" nkhouri22 said in a comment on YouTube, where the video has been posted.

The mother of five also caused a stir by saying that the traditional black dress and scarf, known as shela and abaya, was "cultural" and not religious. Another comment on YouTube by a user called remaks69 read: "wearing abaya and head cover is a mandatory and it's not cultural feature, it's one of the Islamic due to any muslim woman! so stop saying it's cultural and yes, you've wrongly made the choice of not wearing it!"

Another point that ruffled some feathers among Arab viewers was that the interview was conducted via the online phone system Skype, which is blocked in the UAE, but opened for Hamdan to appear on Oprah's show.

A spokeswoman for Harpo, Oprah’s production company, told the New York Post “it was never the intention of the Oprah show to misrepresent the people of Dubai. Dr. Hamdan appeared live on our program to speak about her personal life experience as a citizen of Dubai. We apologize if any of our viewers were offended."

Why emirati marry foreign ladies???

This is an article from an emarati woman which is saying her point of view , in color , i am explaining mine:

I was with my sister at a department store, and I saw an Emirati man with what I assumed was his wife. He was holding her hand and she was dressed in an abaya (the black cloak that most of us Emirati women wear) and the shaylah (head scarf). In fact, she wore this traditional dress like the Emirati women. Had they not stopped close by me, I would have never known that his wife was not Emirati but Eastern European (which I detected from her accent).
As my sister spoke of what she was going to buy, my mind went into a series of questions about the implications of the growing number of Emirati men marrying foreign women.
In the case of this couple I wondered, what would the identity of their children be? As a mother plays a critical role in building a child's character, specifically their sense of religion, language, heritage and identity.

------------- I think that the children will have a double culture but the culture emirati will override their European culture because they live here. Moreover, it is a cultural richness. Already, mostly emarati have indian , pakistani or iranian mothers. Their father used to get married with expats ladies , so why not them?

The fact is that the phenomenon of Emirati men marrying foreign women is an issue of personal freedom - a freedom which I totally respect and support. But the implications of this phenomenon are part of a bigger issue which range from the dilution of our national identity to the growing number of un-married Emirati women. The other implications are rising divorce rates due to non-compatible cultures, marriages of convenience to obtain Emirati citizenship, and lack of fairness which emerges from the UAE citizenship that is easily granted to a foreign woman who marries an Emirati man and her children, while the children of an Emirati woman married to a foreigner are not fully entitled to it.

------ First of all , not all marriages are marriages of convenience to obtain UAE citizenship , because for example, I did not get married for this reason and I am not going to change my nationality . Moreover, I know other ladies married with local men who are keeping their citizenship. But , it's also right to say that some women, mainly asian or East european, have changed their passport .
------ I agree that it's unfair that the children of an Emarati woman married to an expat will not be entitled to UAE citizenship.

So why are Emirati men increasingly marrying foreign women? Fundamentally, we as a people have not changed. However, the phenomenal growth of our society has changed our social landscape, which in turn has had an impact on our behaviour, and priorities. The change in the social landscape is reflected in our cosmopolitan society, high standard of living and access to material wealth and luxurious lifestyles.
This phenomenal growth has also brought with it some challenges. For example, the rapid development of our nation has attracted many people to our country, amongst them single foreign women who in many cases come from societies where dating and non-marital relations are part of the social norms. The growing number of these single women in our society does impact the behaviour of Emirati men. In the past, many Emirati men would marry early, but today we are witnessing a lot of them delaying marriage as there is an abundance of single and willing women, and a lively dating scene. Quite often, these men end up marrying the woman they date.
Our traditional values of strict segregation in terms of socialising of Emirati men and Emirati women have also limited the ability of Emirati men to respectfully meet eligible young Emirati women in public and respectable social manner. On the other hand, these same Emirati men can easily socialise with foreign women, which means that the greater interaction between foreign women and Emirati men naturally results in a higher probability of an Emirati man getting to know more foreign women and increases the chance of marrying a foreigner.

------ I think that the problem is not that there is no interaction between emarati men and emariti women because they can meet each other at work , in the college or different places . The problem is deeper :Many Emarati people will not marry to someone which is not from the same tribe , family or even city ! Why? Their family will may not accept this person.
I know one emarati couple who really loves each other but they can not get married because she is from ''baloush tribe'' and he is from ''emi tribe''.

Lifestyle
The access to luxurious lifestyles has also created an imbalance in terms of priorities, so we find many young men preferring a fast car and a girl friend to a home, wife and children. Materialism has also created a demand for higher dowries thereby deterring many Emirati men from marrying Emirati women.
------ Nowaday , some emirati ladies are asking higher dowries ( Between 100,000 AED and 400,000 AED) and emirati men can not afford a huge amount ( Not all , emirati are rich !) . So , its also a reason to get married to an expat who does not ask that much money.
Today, there is an awakening. Yes for a young nation of 37 years, we have achieved in a short time span what once people called the impossible. At the same time, we increasingly realise that if taken for granted, we can lose everything in the blink of an eye.
So we need to actively work to preserve our national identity. We need to encourage Emiratis to marry Emiratis to strengthen our value system, our heritage and our sense of civic duty. We need to get rid of anachronistic traditions that do not allow young Emiratis to socialise publicly in a respectable manner and allowing them to potentially meet their life-partner. We need to balance out our passion for material belongings and a noble sense of purpose in life.
As Emiratis we have to continue to be bold and to keep up the momentum of development, but we also need to take each step with much wisdom and thought, and not to consider our personal actions only as they pertain to us as individuals, but to also consider how our personal choices affect us collectively, as a people, and as a nation.

European bride & Emarati groom

Salam Aleykoum , Hi , Bonjour to all my readers !
First of all , let me introduce myself . I am an european lady living in Dubai in United Arab Emirates , I just got married few months ago with an emarati man .
Many people are asking me : Why did you get married with someone from the Gulf ?
Family , friends and everyone told me to be carefull , that I will be probably in jail , that he has 2 others wives (which is not true) or that I am crazy ( in love , yes)
I think that they are wrong to think this way but they are rights in some things but I am sure that everything is destiny ...
I did this blog to tell about me , about my new life in an arab country and about my hobbies .
Who ever you are , you can leave your comments and share your experience or point of view about all topics in my blog.